I write my news and blog articles across a wide range of topics. Specifically, I write about Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) Training, Time Line Therapy® Techniques Hypnosis, Mindfulness, Health and Well-being, Nature And Environment, Coaching, Ancient Teachings, Psychology and more.
Actually, the concepts of unity and wholeness are really interesting for me. Specifically, I enjoy discussing how we create separation between people, the planet, and the universe. I constantly question how we can open our minds towards unity or ‘oneness’.
Born in the UK, I lived there until my mid-thirties. Currently, I live in Sri Lanka, with my husband, son and a menagerie of rescue animals. Honestly, my main passion is growth, development and creation. Personally, I am fascinated with the thought that we are always evolving. What’s more, as I get older, I realise that we are all a work in progress. Seemingly, life feels more about flow than measurement these days.
I’m so interested in self-healing and energy. Actually, I believe that all thoughts and emotions are energy and we don’t always use them wisely. In fact, I believe that by fully engaging in work, play and joy we can live creative and sustainable lives.
Furthermore, I believe that we can find ways to work with technology and use it to our advantage, rather than to our detriment. In fact, I strongly feel that balance and compromise in all areas bring harmony. Indeed harmony is the music of the universe.
I write my news and blog articles as a result of conversations with my clients, the research I’m working on, or current affairs I find interesting.
Sigmund Freud’s ‘frosty mind’ view of how the mind works overall and this is summarised in his famous quote below. “The Mind is like an iceberg; it floats with one-seventh of its bulk above water.” Sigmund Freud According to Freud, our psyche is like an iceberg. The id (or areas of primitive drives) lies hidden … Read more
“To be human is to feel inferior.” Alfred Adler Alfred Adler And Self-Esteem Alfred Adler was one of the first psychoanalysts suggesting that a person’s psychology is influenced by present and conscious forces. Additionally, he was curious about the influence of the social realm and environment as equally important to an individual’s past. So, where … Read more
“Do not quench your inspiration and imagination; do not become the slave of your model.” Vincent Van Gogh How was it that Einstein managed to find a solution that changed our world when many of his contemporaries were working in the same field without success? It’s simple. Good questions result in meaningful answers. It’s really … Read more
Soren Kierkegaard was a philosopher born in Copenhagen in 1813 and lived in, what became known as the Danish Golden Age of Culture. He studied Theology at university and during his time there he became very interested in Philosophy. He believed that anxiety is the dizziness of freedom. Life Is Determined By Our Actions Kierkegaard … Read more
This article refers to the Top 10 Greatest Business Disasters. Surprisingly, my first business wasn’t listed – te- he! If you take a peek at the article, many of these disasters are attributed to specific actions taken. So, it makes how many disasters we can avoid. Specifically, can stopping specific behaviours improve leadership skills? … Read more
Long-term insomnia negatively impacts your physical, emotional and psychological well-being. In fact, I am often working to eliminate insomnia, using the specific application of NLP techniques delivered in practical steps. Lack of sleep can create unhappiness, worry and depletes energy and concentration. Similar to depression, insomnia is a behavioural pattern and it can be changed … Read more
What is Emotional Intelligence? Emotional Intelligence is the common sense that we forget about when we’re in “work mode”. It’s about understanding what we’re feeling and what those around us are feeling. When we learn to connect with our emotions we can find ways to manage them in the workplace and in the rest of … Read more
All businesses benefit from strong communication skills. Moreover, they need people who believe they can achieve beyond the possible. As a result, if you want to develop new insights into how we communicate, NLP training can serve you well. Moreover, if you want to present your best, NLP training will improve a wide range of … Read more
When I run Emotional intelligence training I use a variety of questionnaires to support people in gaining self-awareness. I thought I’d share this on with you. It’s taken from the book “Self-Scoring Emotional Intelligence Tests” by Mark Daniel. Actually, this test is designed to assess whether your self-image is positive or negative. A Positive Perception … Read more
“Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity. ~World Health Organization, 1948” Over the last century, there has been a tremendous transfer of knowledge from the East to the West. Holistic arts such as yoga have grown so much in popularity that it … Read more
I believe delegates get more from their training experience when they train away from home. Whether they’re attending a Farcical Life Retreat or one of my Certified NLP Trainings I know that delegates can integrate their learning more effectively if they aren’t heading home to their usual lives every evening after class. Quite simply, destination … Read more
There Are So Many Different Ideas About Creation So many of have different thoughts about what creation is and how it happens. I love this quote below. It sums up my thought for the day about creation. Watch your thoughts, for they become words.Watch your words, for they become actions.Watch your actions, for they become … Read more
Luminosity – To Keep Your Brain Active I’ve discovered Lumosity http://www.lumosity.com/. It’s a great way to improve memory, cognitive brain function and keep your brain alive. You can try it for free so what have you got to lose? It’s fun! Why Should We Find New Ways To Keep Our Brains Active? We’re constantly … Read more
Even talking about vulnerability can seem a little exposing, even today, some 10 years after the lovely Brené Brown brought it out on the table. Actually, our connection to our strength comes from the ability to accept and acknowledge our vulnerability. Observations From A Reality TV Show I was watching the UK talent show “X … Read more
According to the Society for Neuroscience “Imagination is often a prime casualty of the process of growing up. For most of us, by the age of 35 years, 95% of the creative-imagination neurons in our brains have atrophied from lack of use.” So, how can you get your habits to work for you? A Childlike … Read more
An Breadth of Perspective When I first started to work in different locations around the world I had expectations of difference. This idea in itself is interesting for me since I must have been taught this as a young girl. In actual fact, the more I delved into the minds of people around the world, … Read more
When I train people to use NLP techniques in coaching, one of the most common questions of new coaches is “how do I maintain my own energy whilst coaching?” Essentially, they’re asking how to avoid getting caught up in a client’s emotions. Actually, we can learn how to use language to dissociate from emotions and … Read more
As a child, I was a huge fan of the original Star Wars trilogy. OK so I had a crush on Harrison Ford, and yet the concept of the movie is incredibly powerful. In fact, it teaches that your feelings are your power. Films Follow The Human Psyche It always amazes me how much the … Read more
Diving Into The Unknown Enjoying or not enjoying your first dive is all in your head. In fact, whenever we dive into the unknown, our self-talk makes or breaks our experiences. That little voice inside our head can determine how we feel and how we react to situations. It Begins With Our Projections Allow me … Read more
A Stimulating Conversation Earlier this week I flew back from Cairo to London Heathrow and had the privilege of sitting next to a very well educated young Egyptian Doctor. As we began to chat, he was kind enough to share with me his views on the world and what’s currently happening in Egypt. The conversation … Read more
The Source of Inspiration We can all find inspiration in any life experience, conversation or activity. Actually, this one, by Theodore Forstmann is an inspiring letter for me. Specifically, it allows me to think of wisdom as a treasure. In fact, that experience where we delve into knowledge and then allow our self-reflection to deliver … Read more
Quite simply, cognitive dissonance works both for and against our success. When we choose what we to do we are committed. When we do what we HAVE to do we are compliant. Cognitive Dissonance And Success One of the key mindset differences of people who are truly successful and those who aren’t is that they … Read more
The Birth of Behavioural Psychology Did you think Ivan Pavlov’s experiment with some dogs, a steak and an auditory anchor (or tuning fork) was interesting? Indeed, if the answer is yes, you might be curious to learn that another Behavioural Psychologist, B. F. Skinner studied the laws of behaviour using pigeons. In fact, Skinner thought … Read more
T. Boone Pickens was an inspiring man. What’s more, he took a flexible approach to solve problems when he found himself up against a wall. In fact, he built the largest independent oil company in the United States (BP Capital) and flourished as an entrepreneur after leaving it. Financial World named him “CEO of the … Read more
The first instance of a depressive feeling happens in flow or in the moment. In fact, maintaining depression takes effort. It requires a repetition of the same emotions, thoughts and body language. Moreover, it requires us to go against the natural flow of those things to recreate it on a daily basis. The Mindset Master … Read more
Everyone on the planet faces challenges at some point in their life or another. In fact, facing challenges is a fundamental part of our growth and development. Since we can’t always prevent stumbling blocks in life, it’s important to know that challenging times require resilience. What’s more, we all have an abundance of resilience deep … Read more
I love this poem “The Guy In The Glass” by Dale Wimbrow. Actually, it reminds me that there is no hiding from yourself, or certainly not for long. The Guy In The Glass When you get what you want in your struggle for pelf, And the world makes you King for a day, Then go to … Read more
